I Saw Something Scairy Tonight

I went to the movies tonight with my boyfriend and his friend and after the movie we were walking out and the guy who sat down in the row in front of us was talking to us about the movies as we were walking out , this mans girlfriend goes to the bathroom and my boyfriend goes to the bathroom as well so I am standing in the movie theater lobby with my boyfriends friend Ryan who is also a friend of mine and the movie theater guy gets on the phone and says "Hey its me , I told the wife I was hanging with you tonight so , yeah I'll call you in the morning." Than this guys girlfriend comes out of the bathroom and they walk out together. This is scary as hell to me because I witnessed a man cheating on his wife. This made me never want to get married out of fear that this would happen to me even though my boyfriend reassures me that he would never and has never done such a thing before.

This little display of infidelity brought on a conversation of "Would you tell someone?" Would you tell someone they were being Cheated on? To answer this question I would definitely tell someone they were being cheated on under circumstances , then I would be there to help them pick up the pieces when it blew up since I had to be the bearer of bad news.The circumstances would be that I knew the person doing the cheating and I knew the person being cheated on. If My friend was cheating on someone who I knew and had a good relationship with I would tell on my friend but not without lack of proof to show the other person. If one of my friends was being cheated on I would for sure tell them ASAP even with lack of proof to show I would get proof later. I think to not tell someone you know that they are being cheated on is like saying I witnessed you being made a fool of all over town and I don't care enough about you to let you know so that you are not blind to the situation anymore. Even though I witnessed the fact that your "Solid" relationship is a lie that you are living I still will not tell you because I don't care enough to let you know.

What really got to me was when my Boyfriend was talking about how its not cool to "tell on your boys" and that he would not tell on one of his buddies and that he would expect the same even though he doesn't do stuff like that. That scared me because I like his friends and I respect them and I hope that they would respect me enough to let me know that my boyfriend was doing dirt behind my back because I would not want to sit there and be oblivious and be made a fool of.